Indonesian girls are the true dark horses when Asian women are the subjects at hand. Underrated, unknown, and undiscovered – most men know nothing about these beauties, especially when taking the special Balinese girls out of the mix.
Luckily, we dug a little deeper. After spending some time in Indonesia, I can tell you the women in Indonesia are a special breed. Sure, they’re not perfect, but I’m definitely a big fan.
Looking to learn a little more about Indonesian women before heading there?
Here are seven interesting observations:
#1: Thickest Asian Girls
Indonesian girls might not be as thick as Colombian, Dominican, or Brazilian girls. In fact, they don’t even come close.
But when you compare these beauties to Thai girls or Chinese girls, most find them to have fuller busts and larger bums. They’re just thicker.
Thickness: A woman who has larger “features” than normal. This typically involves a large butt with a small waist and big breasts.
If you’re a man with a sickness for the thickness, then Indonesia may be the best country in Asia for your dating needs.
And don’t get too concerned – if you like your women a little skinnier, you can still find tall, model types throughout the country, especially in Jakarta.
#2: Foreigner Love
I try to keep it real around here. White men of foreign descent should have a solid dating life in Indonesia, especially in Jakarta. Hell, really any foreign guy should kill it here.
Indonesian girls love “Bule” more than most. In Indonesia, the word “Bule” means foreign man.
Put simply – if you’re from out of town and even remotely have your shit together, you should receive a solid amount of attention from the girls in Jakarta and other large Indonesian cities.
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#3: The Jilbab Factor of Indonesian Girls
The vast majority of Indonesian girls are going to be Muslims. This is just the way it is.
You may be thinking the religious factor could hinder your dating hopes as a traveler. You’d be damn wrong. No matter their religious beliefs, women in Indonesia are always curious about the foreign man.
Even girls wearing a burka, hijab, or as it’s commonly referred to in Indonesia, a jilbab will be open to meeting, dating and making sweet love with a charming gentleman from a different country.
Many only wear the attire to please family members or ward off unwanted attention from local men.
#4: Party Girls Galore
On the opposite side of the spectrum, we have my personal favorite type of Indonesian girls – the party girls.
If you haven’t heard yet, nightlife in Jakarta and Bali is absolutely off the chain. In terms of high-end nightlife, Jakarta may have one of the better scenes in all of Asia.
And with the great nightlife comes some amazing party girls. These liberal girls often love to dance, drink, and enjoy a few party favors from time to time.
They’ll look dashing from head to toe on a night on the town – with whiter skin, stunning dresses or skirts, and high heels.
#5: Variety is the Spice of Life
In certain countries, you’ll only be able to date one type of girls.
In Thailand, you’ll be dating Thai women.
In Ukraine, you’ll probably find yourself in a relationship with a Ukrainian girl.
In Colombia, you’re going to be seeing Colombianas.
In Indonesia, you get a little more selection due to the genetic makeup of the populace.
You can find Indonesian-looking, Arab-looking, and Chinese-looking chicks in Jakarta. Balinese girls also have a distinct look. Plus, you’ll meet chicks from all over the religious spectrum.
Muslims, Catholics, Atheists, and even Hindu chicks can all be found in your bed while living and traveling in Indonesia.
#6: The Speech is Coming
One interesting note about Indonesian culture I made while living in Jakarta was how often I got the “speech” from Indonesian women.
We’d be in my bed and clothes would be flying off. Then she’d stop me out of the blue. A full, cold stop for no reason. The first time it happened I was baffled, but eventually I learned what was coming:
“Something, something, something about how Indonesia girls in Jakarta are an embarrassment and she shouldn’t be doing this with a foreign man she just met. Plus, bule are this, this, and this. They are bad. The bule are evil. Blah, blah, blah.”
Then we would proceed with our actions a few minutes after she got the speech out of her system.
There are a lot of cultural stigmas surrounding intimate relations in Indonesia still, even in big cities like Jakarta. Understand that even if Indonesian girls are thinking this, they still want to woo you – especially if you’re already back at your place.
#7: Fun Loving Girls
One thing I grew to love about women in Indonesia was their fun loving nature. Girls just want to have fun.
Well, at least the best ones do. Just like Polish girls and Brazilian women absolutely love to have fun – Indonesian women are the same. This can be a rarity in Asia.
Girls in Jakarta love to party, drink, and get crazy.
Well, some of them.
Even the religious ones still love a good shag every now and then.
When dating girls in Indonesia, you should be giving off a fun loving vibe. Leave the mysterious alpha male stuff behind you and in the Western world.
Bonus Tip: Always Ask For Additional Pictures
I may have made Indonesia sound like a wonderful place for a man to date some fine Indonesia women. It definitely is, but no place is perfect.
Online dating can be amazing in Indonesia, but you have to be careful with it. Filters and angles are a reality here too.
When using online dating in Indonesia, you ALWAYS want to ask for additional photos and possibly get their social media accounts. Or, even better, get them on camera at least for a few seconds.
There are some super nice girls using online dating in Jakarta, but there are also some girls who don’t look anything like their photos.
I had many instances my first few weeks in Jakarta where a girl shows up to a date looking frumpy, but she had looked like a legit model on her Tinder profile. Don’t let this happen to you!
Ask for more photos or, ideally, go on a live video chat first. This would save you from a lot of trouble and embarrassment – it’s horrible to open the door and have no idea who the person in front of you is.
P.S: The best online dating sites in Jakarta are Indonesian Cupid and Tinder. For shorter trips, using both is an absolute must!