The Ultimate Guide to Japanese Women

Considering how much niche game information there is out there (anything from Thai women to Indonesian girls), it could be easily argued that Japanese women have always been looked over in the game community.

Granted, Japan is not an extremely popular game destination and that could account for the gap in game literature regarding Japanese women in the land of the rising sun.

Nonetheless, a few things are clear:

  1. Western guys travel to Japan or meet Japanese women.
  2. Western guys visiting Japan want to get laid.
  3. There isn’t a lot of concise and clear game intel for western men visiting Japan.

This humble guide aims to shed some light onto the seemingly uncrackable mysteries of banging japanese gals. It is the result of putting together the experiences and opinions of seduction veterans who have conquered eastern lands and made it back in one piece.

Now of course, your experience dating and getting laid in Japan may vary depending on many things, such as how long you’re staying in the country for, your level of japanese and how tough your skin is when facing rejections.

Having clarified that, let’s get straight to the wild animal itself:

Japanese Women: Physical Attributes

Surely, you can already picture a typical Japanese girl in your head – but the truth is that Japanese women come in all shapes (and sizes, unfortunately).

Since we are only concerned about attractive Japanese women however, most stereotypes will hold true: desirable girls will have a slim figure and be on the short side. Generally speaking, it will be hard to find Japanese women with huge boobs and/or a big ass.

It would be interesting to mention that, while having a huge rack is seen as an attractive attribute in Japan, big booties are frowned upon by local men. Let’s just say big booty twerking black women would have it harder there than your typical skinny girl.

Despite being described as ‘yellow’, the truth is that most Japanese women have rather pale skin – with the exception of girls coming from Okinawa and similar areas, who tend to look half-Asian/ half-Hawaiian. The average Japanese girl takes care of her skin and spends quite a bit on creams and lotions. A lot of them also avoid getting tanned so seeing women carrying umbrellas in the middle of the summer is not strange.

The most commonplace criticism regarding Japanese women is that they tend to have pretty bad teeth on average, and all parties interviewed agreed that fixing this aspect would greatly improve the appearance of Japanese girls in general.

As a side note, it’s interesting that Japanese men tend to dislike girls with slim, Asian eyes – while they go crazy for women who have small faces and bigger eyes. This has resulted in many women traveling to nearby South Korea to get affordable plastic surgery and make their eyes look wider.

Crazy!

Japanese Women: Personality

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Japanese women have always been considered the epitome of femininity in Asia, but as noted by many guys who have encountered them in recent years this is increasingly changing.

For starters, this perception of Japanese women being super feminine has been rather inaccurate: while it is true they are very passive and conceited (both of them attributes of very feminine women), that’s not all there is to it.

On average, it will be easy to put the Japanese women you mean into one of three categories:

  • A category: Highly educated career women from middle or upper class families. They tend to have rather basic hobbies such as shopping or going to the movies – mainly because their life revolves around their careers (this is especially true of women who finish university and join a classic Japanese corporation). They can be naturally quite attractive, but you can tell that’s not their priority because they dress in plain office style clothes, avoid the gym and don’t make much use of makeup. They will generally speak better English than the average Japanese person, though that doesn’t mean she’ll be fluent.
  • B category: Women in this category are those popular girls who have been attractive since their teens and decided to capitalize on good looks early and skip college in favor of pursuing a career in modeling/fashion/nightlife/hostess/entertainment. They generally lack interest in foreign things or people and their English will be basic at best. In addition to the language and social barriers, you can expect a painful seduction process due to their high social intelligence.
  • C category: The remaining girls, those who don’t stand out because they don’t have the looks and didn’t make studying a priority. These will be the girls who end up working as cashiers, waitresses etc. As a side note, don’t confuse them with younger students who work in such places as a part time job (arubaito).

It goes without saying that most foreigners have access to women in the A category, while very few will get a shot at B category women. C category women are just not that interesting unless you want to settle for a nice, not hideous woman and marry her.

In a nutshell: expect to find quite ‘modern minded’ yet passive and very indirect women who (at least in major cities) care a lot about their careers and seem to have little patience regarding the dating and mating dance. Also, starting a family is not their main concern anymore.

Dating & Sex With Japanese Women

That being said, Japanese women are not the sexless, prudish unicorns holding up sex until marriage: they definitely have sex, enjoy it, and often have a bunch of men on the pipeline for dating and banging purposes.

As a veteran expert in Japan said: life moves fast and furious in huge metropolises like Tokyo, and both men and women go on dates with new people at a very fast pace – often having sex in the first date.

From the stories and anecdotes we’ve heard from veterans in Japan, a lot of western men go there with the deluded idea that all Japanese men are herbivore shut-ins who stay in their rooms playing online games and watching anime while eating instant ramen.

Nothing farther from reality, although of course men who fit that stereotype do exist.

There are a great deal of Japanese men in the sexual market and some of them are successful and sexually aggressive. These are the ones who get the top 10% of the women, and because of cultural/language reasons you are not going to beat them at their own game, to put it simply.

What you can do in Japan however is find your niche as a cool foreigner of high value who understands their world (unlike the hordes of beta guys who believe all there is to Japan is porn anime and cosplay). This strategy is the one that will pay the most dividends in the form of warm company and hairy pussies sex.

Counter-Intuitive Dating Advice for Japan & Japanese Girls

Since Japanese society is very different from western ones, it is only logical that a lot of the advice and material that will help get you laid in the west will backfire with Japanese women. Here’s a short list of do’s and dont’s:

DON’T:

  • Spend a long time with women on dates, or across many dates. They’ll disappear.
  • Try to stop them on their tracks when daygaming.
  • Wait until last call in a club to pull the trigger.
  • Be cocky-funny and bomb the girl with banter.
  • Escalate physically from the beginning.
  • Sexualize the conversation or date.

DO:

  • Aim to have sex as soon as possible, without making a big fuss out of it.
  • Walk with the girl when you approach her in the street.
  • Spend your time in a club actively talking to people and befriending them, then stick to the girl who likes you the most and suggest a change of venue.
  • Enjoy simple conversations and the company of the women without being too witty.
  • Avoid heavy physical touch in public – such culture does not exist in Japan and the girl will get defensive. Once you’re alone with the girl, feel free to lay your hands anywhere you can.
  • Even though it’s been mentioned that Japanese girls are not strangers to sex, they’re not used to talking about it and will find it weird if you ask them to share their sexual experiences or make jokes about the topic.

Where to Find Japanese Women

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As in any other place in the world, there are a few avenues to choose from when hunting for Japanese girls. Depending on your skill set, available time in the country, personality and other factors you will fare better in some than in others.

Classic Night Game

If going out at night is your thing and you’re hitting a major Japanese city such as Tokyo or Kyoto you will instantly realize there is a lot of stuff going on after dusk.

Whether you choose to venture into Japanese clubs or you’re more of a bar type of guy, all the received intel gives a standout advice: be social.

You know how we all think Japanese people take their jobs way too seriously and live their lives under a lot of stress? Well, bars, karaokes and clubs are where they escape towards in a futile attempt to forget about their lifestyle.

The best course of action is to get into social mode as soon as you arrive into one. Depending on your level of proficiency with the language, you can attempt to make a funny comment when you order and build some good vibes with the bartender and the people closest up to you. If there are women sitting by themselves (though they’ll be the older ones) you can simply introduce yourself and have a light conversation before you try to bounce them to a different location or get their Line. For groups, once again you can just make a light hearted comment and rub shoulders with whoever in the group responds better to you – until you gain his/her trust and they are in a position to vouch for you with the rest of the group.

When it comes to bars, there just isn’t a huge scene, but HUB is one of the most recommended ones. It’s quite well-known for being a foreign bar where Japanese people go get laid when they’re tired of their own kin.

For clubs, they will obviously be more difficult and inaccessible. The easiest clubs in Tokyo are located around Roppongi and Azabu,while the hardest ones are in Shibuya. If you’re an older player and/or prefer MILFs, Ginza is your hood.

Online Game

As a society that’s addicted to gadgets and tech, it doesn’t come as a surprise that there are lots of options for dating online in Japan.

Tinder, Happn, Skout, Gyaruru, Pairs or Omiai are all valid options, and the general rules for getting laid online in the west all apply here as as well.

Japan Cupid is a fantastic option if you want a premium service that comes with lots of advantages.

Daygame in Japan

Daygame is a surprisingly good way to bang girls in Japan for a variety of reasons (and working under the assumption you’re in a city and did not end up in a 2000 inhabitant small Hokkaido town).

First of all, there is a precedent of daygame in Japanese culture, popularly referred to as Nanpa.

Secondly, in a city such as Tokyo where people go on with their days barely paying attention to their surroundings, the only ones caring about your approaches will be those girls you decide to hit up. People around you simply won’t give a damn – that’s always a positive especially for guys who still suffer from approach anxiety.

Generally speaking, girls will either reject you very quickly (they’re either genuine busy or not interested, so it would be silly to re-open them) or love your approach.

Instead of going for the hard front stop made popular by European daygamers, walk alongside them and build good comfort by speaking either a bit of Japanese or extremely slow English. As always, remember you’re in public in Japan, which means minimal or no touching.

An instant date will usually not be on the books because most women will be going around with their days, but if you put in the work it should be easy to get the contact info (again, Line is king in Japan) of a handful of girls without having to grind out the streets for 8 hour shifts.

That concludes this article about Japanese women. Any comments or questions? Leave them below…

PS: We suggest you start any trip to Japan by first messaging Japanese girls here.

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