Sex in Mongolia: Is It Dangerous For Foreigners?

If you’re a foreigner interested in learning more about sex in Mongolia, you’ve come to the right place. We won’t be talking about prostitution, as that’s not our forte. We’re talking about making sweet love to a sexy Mongolian girl or three as you travel through this undeveloped country.

Now, with Tinder, this can be incredibly easy.

Things won’t be like Thailand or the Philippines, but it shouldn’t be too difficult to convince a girl in Mongolia to go on a date with a Western man. However, things can get complicated for one reason – Mongolian men despise seeing Western men with local girls.

Not only do they not like it, but these descendants of Genghis Khan are known to be quite aggressive.

(Update: See the comments below to see what I mean. They’re an angry bunch.)

Sex in Mongolia: Is It Dangerous For Foreigners?

As the local male population will definitely frown upon seeing you with a local gal, you need to take a couple of extra precautions here. I had some success with Mongolian girls as I traveled the country.

Many Western men have done the same. However, some travelers have come to this country and got in fights with locals. Some of these fights have been over women. Others have been due to drunken rowdiness.

To avoid such stupidity and stay safe while traveling in Mongolia, I came up with a few precautions. As I followed my precautionary ideas to a “T” in Mongolia, I didn’t have any issues. If you do the same, you should limit any problems you’ll have with local men in the country.

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So, here’s how to stay safe while still having sex in Mongolia:

  • No PDA: First and foremost – avoid any and all PDA in Mongolia. No kisses at the bars. No hand holding in the streets. You can “kino” the girl a bit while on the date, but make sure you pay attention to your surroundings. Any angry face can turn into a confrontation in this country. Wait until you’re back in your apartment to escalate and you’ll eliminate 50% of any problems you could face.
  • Rotate Your Bars: Don’t bring 3-5 Mongolian girls into the same bar over the course of a week. Even if the staff is cool seeing a Western man with a Mongolian girl once or twice, you’re almost begging to get into a fight after bringing five girls into the same bar with the exact same staff in one week. Even civilized Mongolian men will take this as a sign of disrespect, and things may go south quickly.
  • Stay Semi-Sober: Mongolian people like to drink a lot. When they get drunk, fights and confrontations can be quite common. Not just with foreign guys, but with Mongolians, too. To avoid some of the stupidity, try and stay semi-sober your whole time in Mongolia. Have a few drinks and get tipsy, but don’t expect to go out “three-sheets-to-the-wind” and plan on not getting in a fight.
  • Don’t Go Out Alone: This brings me to my next point. Mongolia is not a country to enjoy nightlife alone. You need to go out with a friend, a girl, or a group. Preferably a group. While independent travelers may find this difficult, locals are less likely to fight a group of two or three Westerners with Mongolian girls than a single guy alone. Play the numbers, and you’ll enjoy sex in Mongolia worry free.
  • Treat Girls With Extra Respect: Lastly, just be on your best behavior in Mongolia. As corny as it sounds, playing things a little safer in this country is the way to go. And trust me – it won’t hurt your chances with the chicks here to be a bit more low-key. They’ll see you understand the culture a bit and this will increase their attraction to you even more. You don’t have to be a chode, but a few gentlemanly acts can ensure you enjoy sex in Mongolia worry-free.

Stay Safe & Have Some Sex in Mongolia

Mongolian women are some of the most underrated in Asia. I was quite impressed with how sexy some of the chicks in this country were.

If you’re into Asian features with great bodies, then you might like it in Ulaanbaatar.

Just remember the few tips and tricks above to ensure you stay safe while seducing a few of these stunners. Getting into fights with the locals wasn’t on my to-do list, and I’m sure you’d prefer to avoid such a fate, too.

PS: Now that you understand a bit about the culture, read the guide on how to seduce Mongolian girls.

PSS: As far as online dating, this website is the best there is for Mongolia.

52 thoughts on “Sex in Mongolia: Is It Dangerous For Foreigners?”

  1. You are such a shallow human being. Writing/thinking/speaking as thus about women (wherever they might be from) is so pathetic. Don’t be spreading some diabolical nonsense! Just… FUCK OFF!!!

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  2. You are such a shallow human being. Writing/thinking/speaking as thus about women (wherever they might be from) is so pathetic. Don’t be spreading some diabolical nonsense! Just… FUCK OFF!!!

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  3. I spent nearly 1-1/2 years performing engineering services in UB, Mongolia contracted through Rio Tinto Group to rejuvenate the Tavan Tolgoi. Nearly all of my daily/evening interaction and socialization was with fellow Americans, Europeans and educated Mongolian professionals linked to our project. In other words, everyone is focused and speaks English. My circle was very constrained, and I purposely kept it this way to limit the distraction all around me.

    I became well acquainted with the Mongolian culture. In short, for white western men, it is in fact an adult Disneyland. When I first arrived to UB, I went through a three-day adjustment orientation. The last day was strictly dedicated to potential pitfalls involving the Mongolian ladies. The Embassy gentleman conducting the seminar continually overstated that younger, white good looking, professional westerner men (especially American) were revered as a prize to younger and often, much younger Mongolian ladies. These ladies he stated are some of the most beautiful in the world, and have developed a very effective plan-of-action to alluring, and often time trapping these western men as they have an irresistible quality about them. He additionally advised us to not become addicted to the nightlife, as when the sun goes down, white western men with an eye for the Mongolian ladies are not always safe. In other words Mongolian men despise white western men who stroll through the city with their ladies with a passion. There are certain locations (i.e., Grand Khaan Irish Pub) which are okay, however, steer clear of many others (i.e., Marco Polo Night Club) where the clientele is questionable.

    I initially thought the “Embassy Man” as he is known, was being “better safe than sorry”. However, he was not kidding. The first month, I had my nose to the grindstone and had little time for much else. Then I began to notice the attractive maid who attended my room was introducing me to her equally lovely friends. I ate lunch each day at “The Turning Point Café” and began to notice the waitresses becoming more conversational, asking personal and probing questions. It was the same with the local grocery store where I shopped, and many other frequented locales. Of course all of this paled compared to the “Iron Man Fitness Club”, a local gym I worked out at just prior to dinner, which was overflowing with some of the most beautiful ladies in the UB – all of which were assertively curious about the western man in their mix. It seemed pretty, young Mongolian ladies were coming out of the woodwork, suggesting I venture out in the evenings to social locations such as “Face Club”, “Lux” etc. Finally, one evening I thought, “what the heck”, turned off my computer, left my room and ventured to the “Face Club”. I had barely entered, when Magnai, the young lady who works the currency exchange desk at the building I live, grabbed me by the arm and pulled me to the dance floor. Before I knew it, I was at a table with Magnai and three of her girlfriends, and two of their boyfriends. The two boyfriends glared at me all evening as if willing me to drop dead. To cut to the chase, I was approached numerous times throughout the evening by young ladies to dance, however, they were aggressively told to “shove off” by Magnai who was overly protective of me, and would not let me out of arms range for the remainder of the evening. I was unsure if she was trying to prevent me from being taken advantage of, or were her motives more personal? There is a midnight curfew in the UB, and when we departed, Magnai and her three girlfriends all piled in my leased vehicle, wanting to continue the party at my apartment. I politely managed to get them to their homes. I did little “clubbing” after this, however, was very evident that the Mongolian ladies although inherently shy and reserved, can be very aggressive and calculating when they have their sights on a western man they want. As I had spent much time there, I understand that unless the western man is an “expat” (which by the way they are much, much, less interested in), the Mongolian ladies are aware they will be in UB only until their business activities have concluded.

    I was able to find a special blend of coffee I enjoy at the UBean Coffee House. I eventually ended up dating the lady who managed the coffee house – her name is Kubilai. I want to add that it is very difficult to gauge the age of Mongolian ladies until they hit 38-40 years of age I have found. Mongolian ladies develop physically at a very early age, and unlike other Asians, tend to be on average taller and shapelier. Although very feminine, Mongolian ladies simply have a stronger, sturdier appearance to them. My point is, it is difficult to tell much of an age difference between a Mongolian lady of 18 and 35. For example, I am 35 years old, and Kubilai, I later found out was only 19 years old. Because she was tall (5’9”), full-figured and always well dressed, I assumed she was considerably older. Additionally, as in western culture, it would have been extremely rude to discuss age with Kubilai. When you hear the adage “age is just a number”, well, this honestly rings especially true for Mongolian ladies. They may not want a fatty, or an old short, bald guy, however, their main goal is to find a good provider, family oriented and will take the lead in the relationship. I no longer date Kubilai (something just didn’t seem right about dating a lady ½ my age), however we remain good friends and face Book often. There were several other ladies after Kubilai, as it can be intoxicating to receive so much attention from a seemingly endless supply of gorgeous young ladies, however, it is always important to maintain perspective and remember there is nothing they desire more than a white, western husband, especially a white collar professional. I now understand that the “Embassy Man” knew better than anyone

    To reiterate, when I initially arrived to UB, I was “drinking the proverbial Kool-Aid”, intermingling with a few of the local ladies and a few sorted expats, here and there. I found the expats I encountered who chose UB as their final destination to be somewhat “clingy”, and had a dismissive attitude of the Mongolian people overall. I did not judge, as these expats had been here far longer than I, and believed their collective mindset may be for good reason. What I did notice, the expat men I encountered seemed to all be in the 50- 60 year age range (without doubt best years behind them), and migrated to select clubs each evening where “table girls” can be had. What I found common among this group of expats (not stereotyping), they all seemed to have attended accredited universities, well educated, however did not seem to prosper financially. Most of which also seemed to have been the recipients of several failed marriages. I believe UB had become a hiding place or checking out location for them. Most local ladies see these expat men overall as “needy”, and quite honestly, show them little interest. It did not take me long to severe these ties and get back on track as to my purpose there.

    Now to the important stuff – young Mongolian ladies have very little in the way of creature comfort, however, appearance is very important to them, and spend what little they do have on food and clothes. Prestige is important to these ladies. When they see a western man nicely dressed, it is like moths to a flame. There are no secrets in UB with the locals. You may believe you are flying under the radar, however, if you are a descent looking western man with a future, the marriageable Mongolian ladies will get the scoop on you rather quickly to determine if you are worthy of pursuing. Because I am fairly young, have a good profession that pays me rather well; and most importantly will be returning to the USA one day, am precisely what these ladies hope to catch. The sceptics will disagree (let them), however, the most beautiful of these ladies dream of marriage to a western man (preferably American) and raising a family in the USA. In fact, when I was dating Kubilai for a short period, she indicted to me that the most beautiful of the young Mongolian ladies had advertised themselves in online “Mail Order Bride” (MOB) magazines, hoping for marriage with a western man. She shared this webpage with me, showing her profile, as well as many other of the local ladies I knew who I will allow to remain nameless. It is sad, however, I fully understand their desire ti attain the absence of struggle. I noticed that Mongolian girls develop very early, physically and emotionally/socially. Mongolian girls experience precocious puberty far more than other Asians (much of which has been contributed to saturated fat consumption), and marry/conceive children earlier in life statistically than other Asians. I do not contribute this to social environment, I contribute this to a culture whose women mature earlier, are physically stronger, and taught to be mothers/caretakers at an early age. I have been to several Mongolian homes and ger’s to find a 9-10 year old girl caring for her infant sister as if her mother (and doing a great job). I have always been amazed at the early and capable mothering abilities of Mongolian girls. Young, Mongolian ladies want more than anything, to attract a western man for marriage. Ideally, someone in a professional capacity, soon to return to the USA (not an expat who has made UB their home). However, if unable, then through the MOB route. When a Mongolian lady has hit 22-24 years of age, if she has not landed her western gent, then she will settle for a local man (generally of the highest stature possible) as her biological clock is ticking.

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  4. A lot of things Hamish has experienced and said do happen in the downtown area, I agree. A little bit of context, both my parents are Mongolian but I was born and raised in Vancouver. Came to the country when I was still in high school just to pursue my studies here and improve my god awful Mongolian. Something that stood out to me a lot was that my friends here had this stern, masculine look compared to the cutesy, soft ideal look you’d often see in other SE Asian countries. I’ve met my fair share of golddiggers and yes, they always look for people who have native fluency in the said language they pursue, often opting out for Korean and American men than their male counterparts. Mongolians are blinded by the illusion of wealth, they always opt out to look good. Instead of making good financial investments, they’d rather eat and look pretty. I guess it’s the societal norm here. I think they’re just attracted to western features and the delusions Mongolians have about foreign men. Everyone is racist to some extent here, it’s pretty fucking annoying. If you’re in it for the two dimensional romanticized stereotypical version of you in your lady’s mind then go for it.
    A lot of expats whom I had to help around to navigate were of the same type: White, old, male and unhappy in marriage. Sometimes they take up ESL teaching positions, some just loiter around. Very few black, latino people come here. God, talk about yellow fever…
    But not all women are made equal. The best ones are those who are half white washed and half asian. Go find someone with the perfect balance and they’ll probably satisfy your emotional needs and get their shit together at the same time. Worked for me.

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    • You are spot-on Canuck. I am no longer living in UB, however, now in South Africa. Canuck, you seem like a good lad, and hope the locals are treating you well ;0) Quite honestly, I miss UB and the culture. back in the states, when younger I was quite the cowboy (literally) before heading to college. For years I rode in AJRA Rodeos all over the country and faired rather well, especially in Breakaway Roping and Steer Riding and have my fair share of trophy buckles to back it up. While in UB, come late April – mid-May, I never missed an opportunity to rent a horse for the day and gallop over the Steppe’s. I became good friends with Batbayar, who owned and operated one of the larger group tour excursions. Batbayar would allow me to keep a horse for 2-3 days with no problem while I explored the Steppe’s and all its glory.

      Canuck, you are so correct in everything you stated. Koreans, excuse me, however would make my skin crawl the way they would salivate while pursuing Mongolian ladies. I am sure i was often looked at no differently, however, always tried to maintain some semblance of decorum about myself. You are also correct about “….White, old, male and unhappy in marriage. Sometimes they take up ESL teaching positions, some just loiter around.” I found this too be very apparent. They seemed to have no purpose or direction…. a pack of Zombies straight out of the Walking Dead, lunging to your life essence in the hope some of it would rub off on them. They all seemed to have some secret, or to have been running away from something in their native land(s).

      Canuck, you have to be quite a prize to the Mongolian ladies with you multi-cultural sway, just curious, how are you perceived by the younger Mongolian ladies….. and as curiously, the more austere Mongolian men? Looking forward to hearing your response.

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  5. Why is always the teenage mutants that pose as women, then post on these boards. Funny, were it not pathetic (@Blue & Mongol Woman (yeah right, LMFAO)

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  6. It’s foolish to think that Mongolian women are so easy. They are different in nature. I read the article and laughed.

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  7. To fucking dickheads: Bangerson, Hamish and Canuck,
    You guys are not welcome back to Mongolia. I see our hospitality was not enough for you since you dedicated these much time writing shit on Mongolian women and men after your pathetic unsuccessful try with Mongolian women, who are way too gorgeous for you anyway. Get a life! losers :))

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    • @ mongolian girl: Just a quick note when hiding behind a Mongolian Woman alias, Mongolian women do not use words like “fucking dickheads”, “dedicated”, “shit”, “pathetic”, “gorgeous”, “losers”. A Mongolian woman would not behave in this manner. These are all western terms which would be used by a western boy living in mommy’s basement.

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      • I’d have to agree with this.

        I have a hard time imagining any Mongo girl being attracted to the boys that have been posting in these threads.

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      • @Hamish– You think you are the one to decide what we, Mongolian women, can say and how we say it? I don’t think so. So many of us are really well educated and are not afraid to show our dislike in ways we want to, especially to some disgusting fuckers like you.

        P.S. get a life, loser. It is actually for your benefit :)) Our girls are waaaaaaaaay over your league.

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          • You wish ;). Reiterating your pathetic wish of banging our girls many times doesn”t make it true. I know truth is actually tough to handle for pathetic shit like you, but I can still repeat the fact that you are not worthy of our well-educated, beautiful women.You probably do much more of whoring around than most of us had ever did and ever would. So, stop bashing beautiful people, just because our men and us don’t want your disgusting ass.

            P.S. This is my last comment on your shitty site. Get a life, fucker. It was a pleasure to use a few words of swearing since I usually just talk to clever, open-minded, beautiful people that surrounds me. sometimes gotta love the opportunity of swearing. Thaaaaaank you, dickhead.

        • I am really sorry about those pices of shit they I love the culture out there and the history would love to hear more ignore them they have issues of there own and it is very disrespectful not only you but other women and the culture how has the winters been out there this year any word on how the heards I have really close friend they were supposed to be migrating soon few of there sheep wee killed by wolves the last I heard.

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  8. I enjoyed very much reading this article penned by Sage Savage. I can always tell the credibility of a post concerning somewhere I have spent time, not always by its content, however the underlying tone; and Sage has definitely walked-the-walk. The one thing I I would suggest a different path, Sage advises to proceed with caution when bringing Mongolian ladies to “bars”. Although this is “sage” counsel, if you already have your local lady in tow, there is not reason to bring her into a bar. Rest assured that bars are regularly frequented by local troublemakers as well. Your percentages of having a conflict with a local hot-head just increased exponentially. Many of the higher-profile clubs (i.e., Lux) do a very good job at maintaining civility within; disturbances do occur, and security rarely involve themselves in what goes on outside their establishment. My point, there are far too many enjoyable activities and relaxing venues that both you and your lady can partake in without subjecting you both to possible mayhem. If you must search for a bar/club experience, take her to the “Grand Khan Irish Pub” (yes Irish pub). Select a night they do not have live music. The reason I suggest this establishment is that it is a much-frequented bar/grill by city and government officials as well; therefore, it is well-known in UB that there will be no disturbances here (especially to known troublemakers). Again, I thoroughly enjoyed reading Sage’s article as it was spot-on and spoke directly to safe conduct when pursuing a Mongolian lady in UB. So many articles online appear impressively presented on elaborate websites, however, give horrible advice, obviously written by someone who may have passed through, but spent no substantive time in UB. This article, is not one of those.

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  9. Hi, I am a Mongolian woman. Personally, I love white guys. But other Mongolians, specially young men and old women are always telling “only retarded and very, very old white guy would want mongol women” —> actually heard this from my Auntie. But I don’t believe in her since there are many mongolian girls who are dating and getting married to white men. I also see bunch of comnents from Chinese guys saying “ mongolia does not have any pretty girls” etc. It seems lot of people are upset about white men-mongolia girl rlship. Actually, most of the well educated mongol girls only date white guys.

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  10. Hi, I am a Mongolian woman. Personally, I love white guys. But other Mongolians, specially young men and old women are always telling “only retarded and very, very old white guy would want mongol women” —> actually heard this from my Auntie. But I don’t believe in her since there are many mongolian girls who are dating and getting married to good looking, educated white men. I also see bunch of comments from Chinese or other asian guys saying “ mongolia does not have any pretty girls” etc. It seems lot of people are upset about white men-mongolia girl rlship. Actually, most of the well educated mongol girls only date white guys. There are also lot if false info on the internet, such as “average height of mongolians” which made it seem as if Mongolians are the shortest asians, nope, mongolians are actually taller on average and women are curvier and leggier.

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  11. Hi,
    I found your blog interesting
    I like Mongolian girls and was thinking to go there but you made me afraid of what you wrote
    If the girls are ok to with foreigners and are not materialistic what’s the problem?

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  12. I’m going to keep this shit real. There are a lot of hot Mongolian women, and there are also many that are not. However, it’s true that Mongolian women, in general, are curvier (in the right areas) and taller (longer legs). There’s some truth to what Hamish and Canuck stated in their comments. Mongolian women tend to cake on a lot of make-up, and many of them know how to apply make-up well. This can be a double-edged sword. If the woman is not as good-looking, naturally, she is able to make herself look much more pleasing to the eye with make-up. So keep this in mind and don’t trip out if you get an opportunity to see a Mongolian woman without make-up that looks nothing like what you saw the night before.

    Mongolian women tend to take care of themselves well. The culture is quite superficial so how one looks takes priority. The women are very feminine but can also throw blows like a man. I, personally, find this to be sexy. Mongolian women know how to have sex. They’re not like the quiet, conservative East Asian women. In my view, they’re quite liberal and it shows in bed, and like most Asian women, they aim to please.

    Promiscuity is prevalent here. I don’t care what the naysayers on here say. It’s true…and it doesn’t necessarily have to be a negative thing. Just acknowledge. Mongolian women are very jealous, and they have no shame in showing their jealousy. As Hamish mentioned, they can quite protective, regardless of whether or not they have any personal interest in you.

    All in all, Mongolian women are great, and I, for one, feel they are underrated. They know how to take care of their men as they’re quite carrying, by nature. They can cook well (too bad fresh ingredients are not abundant in Mongolia) and are very independent. Mongolian women are not lazy, unlike the male counterparts in Mongolia. If you’re lucky enough to catch a gorgeous Mongolian woman, more power to you. I’ll tell you this…it won’t be easy to grab a hold of a quality one. She knows her value and won’t fuck around with a shmuck.

    Now, since this site is about picking-up and fucking Mongolian women, let’s get to the dark side that most are not aware of (this includes the general Mongolian population). Very many young Mongolian women go abroad and earn a living on their backs. You don’t believe me? I don’t give a fuck what you THINK. I’ve met many Mongolian women living in all parts of the world, particularly, the States, Korea, Japan, Singapore, Hong Kong, China, Taiwan, Australia, Malaysia, Thailand and the Middle East region. I’ve been fortunate to travel a lot due to my business, and I’ve had an opportunity to meet Mongolian women in every one of those countries/region. Believe me when I say this…a lot of young Mongolian women are engaged in the sex industry one way or another. Yes, this also includes Mongolian celebrities and models. Many people would be very surprised to know that a Mongolian woman they admire on Instagram that does not look like the type to spread her legs for money, is actually whoring herself overseas. If you’re Mongolian and you doubt me, YOU HAVE NO FUCKING IDEA.

    If you’re a Mongolian man and reading this pisses you off, well, I’m sorry but it’s the truth. If you’re married and your wife lived abroad, the chances that she was selling herself is very high. My apologies but this is as real as it gets. I don’t hold a grudge against Mongolians. There’s no need for me to make this shit up. Just telling it like it is.

    If you’re into Asian features with curves, Mongolian women will make you fall on your knees. They have bust, and they have ass. They’ve got legs for days. They’re usually shaved down under, and if not, they’ll be well-trimmed. Their pussies are tight (well, most) and know how to fuck. They’re down to try any position, they’re flexible (ever heard of Mongolian contortionists?) and they like it hard. Their moans are intoxicating. She WILL fuck your brains out.

    Listen to me gentlemen, book a flight and head to Ulaanbaatar. If you know how to pick-up on ladies, you’ll have the time of your life. And if you can’t, just get yourself a call girl or pick one up at the higher end bars and clubs. The escorts and prostitutes swarm those areas. Shit, you should even head to the strip club such as the one at Peace Bridge Hotel.

    All these girls try to command a high price, but just knock their asking price down by 50% and you’re likely to end up at an agreeable price at about 50-70% of their asking price. These girls are cum buckets, and they’ll fuck you over and over until your pipes are clean. You’ll be sure to have a good time.

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  13. As a Mongolian , Mongolians are piece of shit(Тэнэг пиздакууд) .Men or Women all of them stupid.Have fun in Mongolia.Do not use condom.Get them pregnant its better than shitty Siberian-Mongolian DNA.Actually Mongolians are bunch of Siberians mixed Mongolians.За тэгээд Монголоо мууллаа гээд солиороод байваа тэнэг лалрууд

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